The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy by Violet Blue

Author:Violet Blue [Blue, Violet; Queen, Carol]
Language: eng
Format: epub, pdf
ISBN: 9781627780582
Publisher: Cleis Press

How Will They Treat Me at the Strip Club?

Although I interviewed many strippers and club patrons, and spoke to boy- and girlfriends of exotic dancers, nothing prepared me for the mixed reactions I got when I ventured into strip clubs as part of my “research.” I found myself—young, female, sexily dressed, looking much like the dancers onstage—ignored by male patrons, who barely glanced at me while they fixated on the naked women. The dancers’ reactions were all over the map, from avoiding eye contact, and physically avoiding me, to excitedly jumping in my lap, giving me more of a show (and more physical license) than they gave the men in the club. My boyfriend and I felt like the hottest couple alive. How will they treat you? Any, or all, of the above.

Decide first which criteria are most important, based on your ideal fantasy and comfort limits: alcohol or no alcohol, full or partial nudity, lap dances, extras like peep booths—and then begin your search. Look in the back section of your local weekly paper or your nearest metropolitan weekly, or if you want anonymity, a publication from a city where you know no one at all. Make a list of your prospective clubs, and if you feel like doing research ahead of time, give them a call during daytime business hours. If a live person answers, ask if they have couples’ specials. For first-timers, I recommend starting your strip club adventure with a higher-end club (which may bill itself as a “gentleman’s club”). Most of these places are clamoring for heterosexual couples; they often let partnered women in free or give couples a two-for-one rate.

Expect to spend some money. Cover charges (just to get in the door) average around $10, but can climb as high as $40 on weekend nights—gentlemen’s clubs can start at $40 on weeknights and go up from there. Don’t try to barter with anyone, from doormen to dancers. Of course, you don’t have to go to a fancy club on your first outing. You may enjoy adventure, want to hit several clubs, or have a recommendation from a friend. Either way, bring $50 to $200 in varying denominations (especially ones, fives, tens, and twenties) for your fun and games, and remember you don’t have to spend it all to have a good time. You might just want to watch—and have rabid sex when you get home.

If you sit near the stage, the dancers will expect to be tipped, so have singles, fives, and tens ready—more if you’re in an upscale club. If you don’t plan to tip, give your seat up to the paying customers, and don’t sit in any designated lap-dance seating unless you want a dance. When the women are done with their routines, they may circulate among the tables and ask if you want a lap dance. Always be polite, and if you see a girl you’d like to give you a lap dance, ask her.

In a very fancy club, you might spend hundreds of dollars, especially if you want to “try every ride at the carnival.

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